Thursday, October 12, 2006
Read a very interesting article today on " My Paper aka Wo Bao"....
The writer is promoting marriage before dating. The title says " Why I dun wan to date ( tan lian ai)?" Well, he is not someone old and uncle and not married. In fact, he is a NUS mass comm, 29 guy who looks perfectly alright. Dun think he is some guy who cant eat grapes, say sour grapes lor...
ANYWAY..... he says the advantages are as such:
1) No complains about marriage is Love Tomb - Ai Qing De Feng Mu, as there is no comparsion with dating period
Me Says: You can always continue ' dating ' when married de mah ^---^ Anyway, higher possibilities that guys will treat their wives worse off when get married, because become " own property " liao. So better to be doted before ( during dating) then never hor...keke
2) No complains about " You are better when we are dating, now ( after marriage) you are like that... erm, meaning not as romantic, not as caring, not as sweet, blah, blah, blah
Me Says: Again, it's up to couples to maintain the romance between themselves, and not up to status. If a person is not romantic, he wun change before or after marriage. And comparsion meant room for improvements! Haha...
3) Once faced with failures relationship, the degree of devotion and commitment tend to drop. We tend to be give in more in our first love, when it's the purest. If marriage comes before dating, there wont be such a problem. Coz you would reserve the " purest heart" to your spouse.
Me Says: Hmm..if a person is pure ah...doesnt matter how many times he/she in a relationship. And practice make perfect! Wahahaha
4) We still mind if your husband/wife suddenly mentions about their ex gf/bf. Even though we wont be making a fuss out of it..but it definitely cast a shadow on the marriage. So without the existence of Exs, perhaps marriage can last longer?
Me Says: But without the existence of Exs, we wun know whether we are been 'mistreat' by our spouse leh....
Clause: Above are personal comments. If thunder same ( Ru You Lei Tong), is purely coincidental ( Chun Cui Qiao He) ..... ^_________^
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